http://community.koinlocal6.com/blogs/ricks_picks/archive/2009/05/15/4067980.aspxChanges in attitude By Rick Devereux     There is something insulting about sympathy. To have sympathy for someone is to feel sorry for someone, to think someone is in an un-winnable situation, to basically not trust someone to make it throughen-USCommunityServer 2.0 (Build: 60217.2664)